Question 1

Is Lavender a dating app?

Accepted Answer

No. Lavender is a platonic partnership app designed for people seeking meaningful life partnerships: co-parents, companions, and chosen family. There is no romantic or sexual expectation.

Question 2

Who is Lavender for?

Accepted Answer

Lavender is built primarily for the LGBTQ+ community, though anyone seeking a non-romantic life partnership is welcome — whether you want to raise a child with a trusted co-parent, find a companion to grow old with, or build a household with a best friend.

Question 3

How does the compatibility matching work?

Accepted Answer

Lavender scores compatibility across six dimensions: lifestyle, family values, location, goals, habits, and personality. Every match comes with a full Compatibility Report covering category scores, shared goals, areas of difference, and conversation starters.

Question 4

Is my information private and secure?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Privacy is a core design principle at Lavender. We never sell your data or use it for advertising. Your profile information is only visible to potential matches, and you control exactly what you share and when.

Question 5

When will the app launch?

Accepted Answer

Lavender is currently in development with early access launching soon. Joining the waitlist guarantees you priority access when we go live, plus exclusive early member features.

Question 6

What makes Lavender different from other apps?

Accepted Answer

Most apps are built around romantic attraction. Lavender is built around life compatibility. We ask the questions other apps avoid: parenting desires, finances, dealbreakers, and living preferences.

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